Definition of a True Alpha

Been looking around the community, and one term that constantly pops up is "alpha male". Do any of you actually know what an alpha male is? Well, from the various references I've seen to it in the seduction community, most out there don't. They seem to think an alpha male is the guy is simply a guy that gets the most women in a group and that's it.

Although, that answer isn't wrong, there is much more to being an alpha male than many of you know about. Looking around, most out there have no clue, because they still act like beta males. Most of you got the definition of an alpha male from guys who grew up as losers until they got into their thirty's, and have no real clue of what an alpha male really is, and sought to define what it is, even though they have relatively little experience with it.

I grew up as an alpha male, so let me educate you as to what a true alpha male is:

An alpha male takes responsibility for the group

This means that when trouble brews, he doesn't run like a bitch and throw his followers under the bus. Many of you on various seduction message boards and lairs do this all of the time. As soon as any kind of trouble comes, it is not your fault, and you quickly start pointing fingers or disappear completely. It is your job to step in and be responsible for the activity of your followers.

Anytime any guy with me gets into trouble, I tell them to keep quiet and let me do the talking. And if anyone takes the fall, it'll be me. This was the case in the "When assholes collide" story when the police showed up. And if a member of my group is in trouble, NO MATTER WHAT, I am there. I don't care if I'm fucking, sleeping, whatever. You must be selfless when it comes to the safety of your group.

Do you know what an Asian guy said to me when he saw me at a bar twelve years after an incident? He told me that I saved his life and he'll never forget it. I won't go into details, but in short, someone was going to shoot him, and I made it my responsibility to confront the guys in question.

An alpha male is the first to fight and the last to leave

How many of you have seen a fight about to brew, and all of a sudden, "friends" start disappearing or acting like a bitch? These "friends" are not alpha males. Do you know how many street fights I've been up to the age of eighteen? Somewhere between 30-40. No joke. Most of those fights were defending my friends. I don't like to fight, but I will ALWAYS defend my group.

And the alpha male lets no member of his group outwork him. He works a little harder and sets the example. I never like to preach anything without following it myself. If you look around in nature, the alpha male is always seen to be leading the charge.

Analpha male stands up for what he believes in and is outspoken about it

Proof that a lot of these "alphas" in the community aren't alphas? If you look at the various message boards, you'll see a lot of these "gurus" (not all) avoiding confrontation with those who attack his name or his ways. He thinks that it's bad for business to defend himself, in fear of losing a potential client.

A true alpha NEVER lets anyone attack him and get away with it. This is why some of you see me get very verbally aggressive when anyone comes at me the wrong way. Tom Cruise, Donald Trump, and Player Supreme are true alpha males. They have their money and business ventures, but if ANYONE attacks their name or what they do, they are quick to strike back. And has it hurt their business? Nope.

How does this relate to women?

Women love emotionally charged men. If a man isn't emotionally charged, then he is hiding his personality because he is afraid of what others will think of him. Fake, so to speak. Women don't want fake men that are afraid to express themselves. An emotionally charged man is a powerful man, because is immune to outside influences. An emotionally charged man sets the tone of everyone around him, whether they like it or not. The leader that women want.

In grade school, the women were always talking about the baddest guys, and all of them wanted to date these guys. Why? Because these guys are powerful leaders. Why would a woman want to be with a guy that has no backbone and is afraid to defend himself? When a guy defends his group, his group looks up to him, and the women want the men that other men respect.

Women can always tell which guy is the alpha male in the group. He sets the tone of everyone else in his group. If he is having fun, everyone else is having fun. If he dresses well, then others will follow his lead and dress well. If he works out, then his friends will work out. It is no coincidence that ever since I started my workout routine, a lot of my boys started theirs.

You can start to understand why I usually get first choice with women when you start to understand how this relates to women. I date the best looking women because I put in the work and responsibility to be an alpha.

An alpha is not all about sleeping with the best women, but it's also about taking on the negative aspects as well. Negative aspects and risks that beta men aren't willing to be responsible for. Risks like getting injured, being seen as an asshole at times (Tom Cruise, myself, Donald Trump), and being the first to fight back against whatever attack comes to you and your group.

You can't fake being an alpha with women, as true alpha characteristics only mold to your personality if you are actually a true alpha.

When is it OK not to be an alpha?

When you are learning. Every single alpha out there, including myself, had to learn from the alphas before him. It's OK to be a follower and learn what you can from other leaders. It saves you a lot of time from trial and error. I only make this statement, because I know there are a lot of you out there with egos that are thinking "fuck that, I ain't no follower".

Everyone must follow before they can lead. Don't forget that I was a student of Zenmack before I started doing my own thing. There are times when you need to set your ego aside. It's easy for anyone to have a big ego. Having a big ego without being a true alpha won't fool women. Ego does not equal alpha.